Real Housewives of OC 80's Party

How real is this show..........really?  No matter how much Gretchen and Tamra seem to want to work on their friendship I'm not buying that Tamra would want to hurt her friendship with Vicki by inviting Slade.  I think this was all the producers and what drama did it bring!  I also want to say is it just me or does the new girl Heather just not fit in with this crowd or what?  She belongs on The Real Housewives of New Jersey.  I don't even think Heather belongs in the city Los Angeles period.  Go back to New York with your high and mighty ego, we don't want you here.  Even though she may be the prettiest it seems like Alexis just keeps getting dumber as each episode passes.  Her 80's get up looked amazing but the gum chewing made me want to punch her in the face.  Gretchen has a rockin body but she and Vicki's costumes were mediocre at best.  Tamra just plain looked like a jackass.  I think it's funny Slade calls her fat because that she is definitely not at least now.  She is also right she does have an amazing butt.  I also noticed that Vicki always seems to make everything about her no matter what.  Her daughter is facing a cancer scare and Vicki hasn't once talked about how it's affecting Breanna, you only hear about how it's affecting Vicki.  Tamra's party was supposed to be fun and drama free (laugh) but even though Tamra's friend brought up the whole Slade comedy act, Vicki wanted to make it such a sob story about her.  I like Vicki but she is really immature for her age I have to say.  I think the whole Tamra and Gretchen ending their feud was solely for a story line since there obviously is lack there of right now.  I am sure before the end of the season the finale will end with a big blow up between the pair.  PREDICTABLE.  There also seems to show some drama between Gretchen's friend forehead I mean Sarah and Heather Dubrow.  Apparantely Sarah's boyfriend told Heather not to let her in to her party.  We will see how that drama unfolds.  Needless to say this season so far has been pretty tame.